Friday 14 February 2020

Clean Out

We've been doing some pre-spring cleaning.  Old clothes that no longer fit have been bagged. Once they've been bagged the problem of disposal begins.  Most of the clothes are in excellent condition.  We have no second hand shops here, no bazaars and the church no longer collects unwanted clothing.  Mostly we leave them beside the recycling bins and they are usually discovered and taken, hopefully by someone who wants them.   



K also went through all his old naval uniforms.
He kept his ceremonial whites, the formal black uniform with all the medals plus his hat and gloves and his sword.  He also kept his Naval safari jacket, a light weight short sleeved white jacket for less formal wear in the summer.

The jacket in the photo above is a very old one which we have put aside in case anyone wants to wear it during carnival.  This jacket has only 2 stripes on the sleeve, the stripes of a sub-lieutenant.
He left the navy with 3 1/2 stripes and the title of  Commander.

Keeping his dress uniform in good condition is essential because it will be what he wears when he goes into his coffin.  We have strict instructions on who to call when the time comes, and what we hand over to Naval authorities.  His hat, gloves, sword and medals will all be on display and his coffin covered by the greek flag. We/he is lucky to have the Navy base here who will provide an official escort, honour guard.  The escort will attend the funeral coffee afterwards but must also be invited to the wake where close friends and family will eat meat or fish soup.

Tradition  continues to the grave and beyond.  We  have very strict instructions to keep the candle on his grave lit for 40 days and hold all the memorial ceremonies, at the very least the 9 days, 40 days, 3 month, 6 month, one year and 3 year memorials and not to forget to boil funeral wheat for All Souls.

Oof 




28 comments:

  1. OK! The Greeks have ritual, for everything in life, and after death.

    Off Topic but... Wishing you...

    💗 💗 💗Happy Valentine Day💗 💗 💗

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    1. Oh yes . The rules are laid down right to the end

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  2. I'm in favor of early planning. It also requires some courage.

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    1. Death is close up and personal here. I suppose once again it's the small community. We attend a lot of funerals and there is a lot of socialising before and afterwards. Everyone gets together . It's not a taboo subject at all.

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  3. Interesting that you have no second hand shops. I wonder why? We really rely on them here... both to donate to when we clean out, and to find new (to us) treasures!

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    1. Athens no w has second hand shops but here buying second hand is still a 'no no'. What if someone saw you in the shop and told everyone you were so poor you had to buy 2nd hand.
      Different culture, different thinking

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  4. Greek life is certainly a series of rituals, even in death. Strange that you have nowhere to donate old clothing. I would be lost without our charity shops.

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    1. I love the NZ and Australian charity shops. Even my greek husband lived them. We'd go through everyone we found looking for bargains.
      Thankfully my kids are the same and exchange their kids clothes with friends. I think the younger generation is changing their way of thinking.

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  5. Shame I can't come and raid your hand me downs! I'm sure I'd find something great. Have a wonderful weekend.

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    1. Wish I could raid yours!! These were almost new clothes. I've still got a huge bag left.
      Weekend looks to be dry and warm. Perfect for coffee!. Hope yours is more warm than hot lol

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  6. I thought the younger ones might be into the naval uniforms and dressing up. Do they have 2nd hand shops at all there?

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    1. We have a uniform that husband had when he first went into the navy at age 13. All the grandkids have worn it. They live dressing up.

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  7. Goodness me! I'd be lucky if only my dog came to my funeral.

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    1. I don't give a damn! Once you're gone you're not around to see or care but he wants to be remembered....or else!!

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    1. Goes on and on. And most people still follow the tradition.

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  9. The Greek view of second hand clothes would explain a lot. In Metaxagurio market there are 5 or 6 big tressle tables all piled high with clothes. All slightly damp as if had been 3/4 tumble dried. Each table has either a 1 euro or 2 euro price tag. Looks suspiciously like charity donations from UK half the tables n Italy the other. Locals went no where near but brits n Americans were in there. I got 2 holister t shirts perfect. 2 monsoon summer cardigans a joe brown designer cardigan for 6 euros the lot. Wondered why locals were looking at 1970s looking new clothes and not tables of designer n high end second hand ones, which all apeared in perfect condition.

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    1. Hi Kirrie, I love those markets with piles of clothes to go through. A lot of the foreigners buy there. We used to have bazaars here for animal welfare and have loads of 2nd hand clothes. I t was always the foreigners that bought, not the locals

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  10. Sorry the above market is the wednesday one in Athens.
    Regards Kirrie x

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  11. My brother died in 1997 and to this day my parents go to the cemetery every morning and light the candle
    I guess when your in the depth of depression it makes you get up and get out of the house

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    1. It is hard for parents to lose their children. It is supposed to be the other way round. That's a long time to keep the candle lit. Exactly it gives them a feeling of being close to him still and of being needed

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  12. And to think that brother Tony still has mum & dad in urns hidden in the cupboard. Tsk tsk

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    1. Trouble is it is not Tony's fault. He is more reliable than a ten-bob watch, I believe!! We have to get the family together and get it done!!!
      Kind of creepy having ashes in your wardrobe

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  13. My late father was in the Merchant Navy, then in later life he was Chairman of the local MN Assoc. It was very comforting to have so much ceremony offered for his funeral, the draped flag on his coffin, the guard of honour, the dipped flags and the bugler, etc. Doesn't stop the hurting, but it does warm the heart a little. As for the continued rituals, I would soon lose track of what and when! I wonder whether the boiled wheat is a bit like the frumenty I was blathering on about a while back?

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    1. It certainly makes K happy to think he will be honoured by all the ceremony and attendance. These rituals continue here for almost every funeral so there's no losing track of it!! People will ask when the next memorial is and at which church.
      I remeber your frumenty post. The frumenty is more like porridge. This is a dry mix, handed out in a paper bag. Somewhere I have photos. I'll try and post them.

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