Sunday service. A 3 month memorial for our cousin who was buried on the day lockdown started. He had no 9 day memorial, no 40 days memorial but some of his friends did arrange a blessing over the grave. Early this morning I dressed all in black and showed my face at the morning service
I didn't go inside to light a candle. K went inside and lit one for me and was then told to leave, and stand outside. I don't know how many were allowed to sit inside but apparently it was full. There is also a second floor, the women's space, where you can go and observe from above, women and children only.
We all sat across the road.
The priest came to the door to give communion. I wonder if he used the same spoon for every person
The 'before' photo
There were chairs set outside, at a 2 metre distance. We sat that way for about 5 minutes and then moved the chairs a bit closer so we could talk to each other over the priest and chanters who came through loud and clear from an outside speaker.
Every so often K would jump up and tell us all to stand up and stop chatting. Grumble grumble grumble. Not that the immediate family would dare to grumble but we all secretly smiled when someone else did.
You're supposed to stand for the Lords Prayer and at a few other points in the service which no-one but him was taking any notice of
Social distancing soon went haywire but mind you it was mainly our large family 'bubble' that was together across the road
The 'offering' basket was brought outside too.
The basket is taken to the back of the church where the money is very noisily counted with rattling coins, chanters and the droning of the priest all competing to be heard.
After a 20 minute sermon about 'likeness' to god and 'sameness' to god and Saint Konstantine and the beginnings of the Orthodox religion and something about Adam and Eve I started drifting off. The actual memorial was a 5 minute address right at the end and then we all went off for coffee, liqueur and hard biscuits. Any idea of social distancing had been forgotten by then and a good time was had by all.