Tuesday, 31 March 2026

My Girls and Me


Every day is daughter's day

So, a short celebration

If you asked me today

'if you had the chance would you go back and change your life'

I'd have to say' NO'. I wouldn't have missed out on these two girls and their adorable children for anything the universe can offer. 

Would I tell others to dare to do the same? I would say a big 'No!' to that.  Stay at home, stay close to your folks, enjoy your culture, your roots,  marry one of your own.   It's not easy adapting to a foreign life, accepting a foreign culture. 

I miss my downunder family even though they visit often. I hope they can continue to travel now as this world, and our lives, are being torn apart. And as we all grow older. Thank the powers that be for social media and Whatsapp but it's not the same as having them in the next town, state, even across the Tasman Sea,  somewhere we can meet now and again for a flat white, a custard slice, reminisce about growing up and laugh together.

 Thankfully my girls, my dear sons in law, grandchildren, are close by and I know I'm blessed. As I am with my foreign husband who supports and cares



Elli's balcony
She's living in the family house down in the old town.  It has a roof terrace with a panoramic view of the harbour and a balcony full of pot plants

She sends me marmite recipes, NZ memes, NZ recipes that she hopes I'll take the hint and cook for us
That reminds me it's time for hotcross buns.  This weekend Elli, and Jan, and the rest of you 




Danae, eternally aged 28 (with a son of 24. How dare he!! ) 
Phones me for advice on a recipe,  sends me all the latest kiwi goings-on from NewsBeast.gr
 NZ only gets in our news feed when it's something strange and downright weird .


Now an empty-nester she's bringing up Boem


Elli's bundle of joy
Junior is now a senior



The three of us


We all love NZ. The girls have visited quite a few times and have NZ nationality




2 comments:

  1. Oh Linda. This post seems wistfully sad yet joyful at the same time. It is horrible what is being done to our world right now xx

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    1. Damn damn damn. Doesn't look like any of the family will be visiting this summer.
      I miss em all. Still got those winter blues. Another huge storm due tomorrow

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