The summer months are full of Saints days, fiestas major and minor. Gatherings of friends and family to feast and rejoice with those named after the particular saint.
25th July
One of the days the Greek Orthodox church observes Saint Anne. The other observance being on 9th December.
There is a little church across the waters dedicated to Saint Anne and our daughter's inlaws look after the church. It's usually a service in the morning followed by coffee and cakes at the house of the maiden Aunts. The Aunts are getting on, into their 90's, and care of the church and preparation for the Saint's day has been taken over by others. This year it wasn't just coffee and cakes at the family home.
This year there was an evening service, followed by feasting and dancing on the waterfront to a band playing traditional Greek island music. Now there is talk of making it an annual summer event as it attracted hundreds of people who danced and revelled till the wee hours.
Meanwhile across on Poros, up in the hills, we were getting ready for the annual celebration of Saint Paraskevi (female saint), protector of the eyes.
It's a subdued observance. Especially when you have a sermon from the monk at the Poros monastery telling women they should wear long skirts, have their eyes cast down, and obey their men. Make-up, short skirts and jeans are devices of the devil. And more, much more.
Barefoot, pregnant and in the kitchen in other words.
We've heard it all before.
He's turning many away. Women wear trousers (men's clothing) anyway, like me. I light my candle in remembrance of those who have passed and find a place outside to sit and wait for the sweet bread and cakes at the end.
My three girls. In skirts. One borrowed, one blue and one brand new.
K likes to keep up traditions so he organised a sleep-over for 2 granddaughters and their friend who is named after this Saint. Paraskevi, but she's known as Evita. A modern version of the name.
It's no longer mattresses on the floor and pillow fights. I arranged so that they had their own 'suite' and could do their 'own thing' till dawn if they wanted to.
Once upon a time I made the offering of 5 sweet loaves (as in the tale of Jesus turning 5 loaves and fishes into enough to feed the thousands) and a special bread called Prosfora with a Holy stamp on it which is handed out after communion.
It's hot and I've 'been there, done that'. But the girls decided they would make the Prosfora bread.
Bread making. 2 of those girls are rowers. Boy, did they knead that bread well. It rose to twice it's usual size.
The finished product. Not quite right though. We have a seal which has to be pressed into the middle and it has a whole lot of religious symbols which have to be clear so they know where to place the candles that go into it......or something like that.
I think it's upside down. Hard to tell.
That darn seal just would not do what it was supposed to do. First it stuck, then the symbols weren't clear. Everyone had a go at pushing it down onto the loaf. We wet the surface, put oil on it, flour. And at every attempt the dough had to be smoothed out kneaded again.
We had 2 seals, one of them a very old one from the other grandmother Eleni. But it was
'not any way, José' .
We did our best and took it to church anyway covered in a clean white cloth.
Along with the bread the girls printed out 2 lists of names, one list to remember our dear departed and the other to ask for good health for family and friends. These are read out by the priest, monk, at the end of the service.
When the service is over the sweet bread brought by the faithful, soft, fragrant and squishy along with sticky cakes are offered around by those celebrating their name day. And of course there's lots of gossip to be learnt and outfits to be eyed up and down.
An essential is a big bag to carry away lots of sweet bread to have with coffee later at home. I got plenty.
The church is small so everyone stands, sits or wanders around outside
Good girls...😍
ReplyDeleteThey had a lot of fun and made Papou very happy. That's the most important
DeleteI think your priest would be horrified if he came here.
ReplyDeleteHe's horrified here but still has all the other trapping of modern life, a mobile phone and a big suv
DeleteThese events sound wonderful.
ReplyDeleteLocal traditions which everyone enjoys
DeleteOh how I dislike those kinds of priests. Thankfully the younger ones coming up are all more modern
ReplyDeleteWatching the rowing on the Olympics I thought of your granddaughters
This monk isn't that old. Just a woman hater. He should have got married and become a village priest. His wife would have sorted him out 😅
DeleteGreece and NZ are doing really well in the rowing. Great to watch
I just love the sound of all your festivals. Not keen the priest though.
ReplyDeleteNot many are keen on the priest. They excuse him because he's a monk. A monk who's 100 years behind
DeleteIt is so nice and heartwarming to hear about traditions and family. There is hope for us yet!
ReplyDeleteYes, even the younger generations are continuing the traditions. However some are dying away.
DeleteAll these traditions are amazing. We have nothing like that here.
ReplyDeleteAny traditions with a bit of revelling involved are followed enthusiastically
DeleteJust today I was thinking about how the sleeping arrangements of the grandchildren change when they grow up. Even here there are no more mattresses on the floor...
ReplyDeleteThey still have fun but the way has changed. The girls closed the door and giggled. They brought beads with them and made bracelets.
DeleteSo glad they came. They're almost too old 😞
It's wonderful to see young people carrying on the traditions LA.
ReplyDeleteTheyve been immersed in church and culture from birth and like following the traditions
DeleteThe monasteries are like that in the places I have visited in hot lands of North Macedonia, Albania and churches in turkey. I didn't object too much to being given a skirt to wear and I don't suppose I understood it if the monk or priest told me to obey a man. We were often eyed suspiciously when with a guide speaking in English. I bought alcoholic spirits on the advice of the bus driver in North Macedoia and he seemed pretty relaxed about equality of women regardless of the monks and the monks were glad of the money. I saw the same thing in the convents of Moldova. The monks seemed happy enough to show us icons and liked people to be interested. I like traditions but we don't see much of it here anymore. It is all very diluted.
ReplyDeleteThis particular monk is very backward in his thinking. He puts down women every time he preaches. At the monastery here there are skirts provided and I always wear one. I wouldn't dare to go inside the church otherwise. Though I normally dont.
DeleteSome of the monasteries are very strict. There's one just across on the mainland that has separate chapels for men and women. The women get the service via a loud speaker.
The monks are usually very friendly and welcoming, as long as you follow the rules.
Our little church is a family church and there aren't many services held there besides the 2 before and on its feast day. Many women, like me, wear mens clothing but we dont go inside the church. Lighting of candles and partaking of the bread takes place outside away from the eyes of the monk. My granddaughters wore skirts because they went inside and took communion. They were quite happy to do that. Theyve been brought up in the greek traditions and church culture
How annoying trying to get that seal to work. It sounds a bit like trying to stamp shortbread, which I always used to find difficult. Lovely to see the girls making the bread :)
ReplyDeleteI don't think I've ever got the seal to work properly even though I've made a few loaves. I'm sure Grandmother Eleni got it right everytime. K has googled and we have seen it being made in documentaries. It looks so easy.
DeleteThe young ones always suit skirts and lovely fashions like those. I can't remember when the last time was that I didn't wear jeans, they are so comfortable.
ReplyDeleteThe previous Archbishop preached that everyone should be welcome in church whatever they were wearing as long as they were clean and tidy.
DeleteNot any more
I find that if the seal isn’t completely clean and dry, it will stick. I would not use water or oil, though. And you have to really press down hard ~ I put it on the floor and really lean into it!
ReplyDeleteThe monk sure isn’t doing the church any favors, but being so stern that the young folks get turned off by all the rules and regs. They are living an aesthetic life, I think they have lost touch with the world outside. Although I was told to buy dresses and skirts, many of the cradle Orthodox in our parish wear pants. As long as they are respectful and clean, I just don’t see a problem. But! I’m not a priest or a monk!